No worries for the worries!

So yesterday we went to see a Genetic Counselor to give us some answers about this extra Y on my husbands 22nd chromosome. They gave us NOTHING not a single answer just "well it could be".... This morning I was awoken with a phone call from the Geneticist and she had gotten word some a specialist that said the extra Y on 22 is inert. It means nothing. It wont affect our babies, it hasn't affected DH it is just there. WOW all that worrying for it to be nothing. I just feel like the last week of stress and cookie eating was something that shouldn't have even happened. Well this is life and we live and learn. I now have the most empathy for others that are in the position I was in and the emotions I felt.